Hey there, I’m Jim Stalker, and I write about the complexities of our modern lives, focusing on what’s genuinely worthwhile. I’m pretty wary of those smooth-talkers selling killer abs, peace of mind, and unlimited success, all while reaching for your wallet. I believe that real change takes time, effort, and it’s tough – I know…
It always amazes me how much I experienced during my youth without truly realizing or appreciating it. I was simply unaware, perhaps even naive. Southern California, during that time, was a hub of expansion and innovation, possibly more than any other place. The South Bay, in particular, had its unique contributions. One such innovation I…
A Rediscovery: Eric Clapton’s Mastery Recently, my iTunes shuffled to Eric Clapton’s rendition of Freddie King’s “Hideaway” from the John Mayall and the Bluesbreakers album. Every note struck by Clapton is impeccable. His tone, his rhythm, and the emotion in every bend and vibrato are nothing short of a masterpiece. This track truly embodies the…
Life in the ‘Only Child’ Limelight Our son, the center of our universe and, well, our only child. If there’s something to praise or a pot to stir, guess who’s in the middle? Yep, our kiddo. Parents of singletons will agree – it’s relentless! It’s like parents of multiple kids get “commercial breaks,” while we’re…
Halloween Spending Today’s Halloween, rooted in the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain, holds the title of being one of the most commercial holidays in the United States, following closely behind Christmas. Recent surveys show that spending for this holiday has seen a massive uptick. On average, an American is expected to spend around $185.50 on…
Our son is an only child. We apologize, son. It’s just how things unfolded. One challenge of being an only child is that you’re always in the spotlight—both for commendations and corrections. There’s never a respite. While a child might assume they’re getting a break, in reality, parents are just recharging for another round of…